Why Does My Therapist Keep Asking About My Body?

Body awareness practice for noticing sensations.

Most of us move through our days in our heads—thinking, planning, worrying, remembering. We often forget that our bodies are quietly carrying the story of how we feel. Stress, sadness, joy, even old memories—all of it shows up first as sensation.

The trouble is, when we don’t pay attention, those signals can get louder and louder until they feel overwhelming. We might snap at someone, shut down, or reach for food, a drink, or our phone—without even realizing our body was asking us to slow down and notice.

Learning to tune into your body sensations is like learning a new language. At first it feels unfamiliar, but over time you begin to recognize the signals: a clenched jaw saying “I’m holding tension,” or a flutter in your chest saying “I’m excited.” This awareness helps you respond with choice instead of reacting automatically.

Noticing your body doesn’t mean forcing yourself to feel everything all at once. It simply means checking in gently, like knocking on the door of a good friend: “Hey, how are you doing in there?”

Sometimes we don’t even realize we’re feeling something until our body tells us.
A tight chest might mean we’re anxious.
A heavy belly might mean we’re sad.
A warm heart might mean we feel love or relief.

Your body speaks in sensations, not words. When you learn to listen to it, you understand yourself in a deeper, gentler way.

Why Notice Body Sensations?

1. It helps you stay calm in hard moments
When you feel upset, your body reacts first. Noticing that reaction helps you pause and slow down—so you’re less likely to say or do something you’ll regret.

2. It helps you name your emotions
Sometimes we weren’t taught how to feel or express emotions. Your body can be a guide—it offers clues about what you’re really feeling inside.

3. It helps you trust yourself
When you can stay with what’s happening in your body, you’re building trust with yourself. You’re saying, “I’m safe now. I can feel this and still be OK.”

4. It helps old patterns loosen
Maybe in the past, it felt dangerous to feel. But now—in a safe space—you can practice staying with a little bit of feeling, like dipping your toe into the water.

Try This at Home

Once a day, pause and ask yourself:
“What’s happening in my body right now?”

Warm? Tight? Empty? Tingling? Numb?

Gently describe it without judgment:

“There’s a tight ball in my stomach. It’s not good or bad—it’s just there.”

Breathe. Stay with it for a few seconds. Remind yourself:

“I can feel this and still be OK.”

That’s it. No fixing. No solving. Just noticing.

Guided Practices

The more often you practice noticing, the easier it becomes to recognize your body’s messages before they turn into overwhelm. You don’t have to force anything—you’re simply learning a new way of paying attention.

To support you, I’ve created two guided practices you can follow:

A longer version you can use when you want to slow down, settle in, and really check in with yourself.

A one-minute version for busy days when you just need a quick reset.

Think of them as invitations—not chores. A few moments to listen to your body, notice what’s there, and remind yourself that you’re safe to feel.

Your body is always speaking. These practices are your way of saying, “I’m listening.”The more often you practice noticing, the easier it becomes to recognize your body’s messages before they turn into overwhelm. You don’t have to force anything—you’re simply learning a new way of paying attention.